Lets talk about Social Circle Pick Up for a second.This isnt particularly addressed in PUAdom because, for real, a lot of PUAs (Pick Up Artists) dont pursue active social lives, instead concentrating on improving their Game and occasionally hitting the fools mate, one night stand and/or f*ck buddy.
and, of course, if one has read Neils The Game, you can see how f*cked up you can get without pursuits beyond The Game, having regular friends you can chill with and what not. the rules are very similar to typical wing rules, except its your wing- the guy who knows the social circle and has introed you to his friends- whos calling the shot.
How much can I f*cking STRESS this sh*t? Maybe you want to talk about it to your friends and impress them with your knowledge. Fine, good for you. But when youve been introduced to your buddys (and hopefully your wing is just more than a wing to you, but actually a good friend who also happens to have similar goals and skill levels when it comes to women) friends, you DO not F*CKING TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB.
If your buddy has told you which girl is his target (or someone he hooked up with or planning to) you DO not F*CKING TRY and GAME HER. Instead, your DUTY- as both a good friend and wing- is to TALK HIM UP to give him SOCIAL PROOF that hes the f*cking COOLEST guy in the F*CKING WORLD and your BEST friend. Obviously, however, this isnt a perfect world and maybe your buddys girl isnt into him. Fine, but A) you still notify him and B) you dont Game until you have permission or C) Its SOOOOO f*cking obvious that shes into you (not your run of the mill IOI, but shes full up acting AFC on your ass and trying to Game you while ignoring your buddy) and youve exhausted options A and B. Then you can go in.
3) COMMUNICATE you F*CK HEADS
Tell your buddies which girl is off limits and which one isnt. you cannot tell them Were just friends and assume that shes off limits. you actually have to tell them. you know theyre PUAs, respect that theyre going to Game whats hot. and if you simply indicate there isnt anything serious going on, THEN DONT get F*CKING MAD IF THEY MAKE A PLAY for THAT ASS.
you cannot intro your buddies into your social circle and expect them to whack off in the corner. They will be men and Game. Let them know whos off limits and who isnt. you cant have plans on EVERY SINGLE F*CKING girl THERE. Why then even f*ck bother introducing your PUA friends other than to show off?
5) INTRODUCE HIM TO your OWN SOCIAL CIRCLES
Do not be a f*cking leech. If hes taken the time and effort to introduce you into his social circle, give a little respect that youre stepping from a purely wing environment into an actual friendship beyond acquaintenances. Introduce him into your own social circles and follow the rest of the Rules.
Act like an actual human being for once- chill, and have fun. This is what regular people- be they cheesedicks or Naturals- do. They arent obsessive compulsive Pick Up artists, they actually have a life beyond picking up chicks. Seriously. CHILLAX for a second. Enjoy the environment, the ambiance, and the people. you are not on a f*cking stage and you do not have to f*cking perform every time you see a cute chick. VIBE and HAVE fun.
Dont f*cking freak. Expect it. If they werent going to hook up with your PUA buddy, they would still end up hooking up with a cheesedick or a natural. Deal with it. But at the same time, your wing/buddy better not be stepping out of bounds and Gaming your girl, unless shes definitely not into you but rather him. Then just be a MAN and step aside. you win some. you lose some. Thats life.
8) DONT PLAY F*CKING MIND GAMES WITH ONE ANOTHER
Thats what chicks do. Thats not what bros do. Now maybe you wing with some Pick Up Artists but arent actually friends with them. That can happen and they want to subtly indicate they are more alpha than you. But thats not what friends are about. Dont f*ck each other over.
9) DO not BE A F*CKING COCK BLOCK
If your buddy is interested in a girl, your job is to SOCIAL PROOF HIM. you do not f*cking cock block him. you do not TOOL him. you do not AMOG him. you show her that you consider him to be the most coolest, alpha guy in the room. Its a PRIVILEGE that youre in his circle of friends. Show some respect, appreciation and f*cking friendship.
10) PAY ATTENTION
This is simple SITUATIONAL AWARENESS, people. If you are the introducer, pay ATTENTION to your friends as to whether or not theyre having a good time and what not. By inviting him out, you are also accepting responsbility for his enjoyment as well as actions. Dont put him in a position where hed like to commit seppuku and slice open his abdomen from sheer boredeom while you do your sh*t. If you are the introducee, pay ATTENTION and follow your friends lead. you are there by his invitation. Dont f*ck him over by violating Rule 9. Vibe you f*ckheads. Social circle sarging should be relatively easy because it isnt a cold approach and you dont have to be a sarge automaton.